Are you optimistic or pessimistic? That is the question of the ages regarding your viewpoint about life. It's all about your perception or the way that you see things. If you are an optimist you see a half full glass. If you are a pessimist you see a half empty glass. The amount of liquid is the same in the glass no matter what your perspective is. It all just comes down to how you perceive it.
The difference between being positive and negative can influence your decision making in such a way to set the tone for your life. Positive people go through negative things, but you would never know it. They see those stumbling blocks as stepping stones rather than obstacles. They find something good even in the bad stuff they have to face. Negative people always let you know the bad stuff first, second, and third. They never see anything good in any situation and their joy is hampered by their inability to see through the darkness and find a shining light.
I pastored one lady who was the most negative person I believe I've ever met. You could feel the atmosphere chill when she walked into the room. Some people thought she was wonderful, but the majority were uncomfortable when she was around. She always complained, fussed about everybody, and refused to accept any change. Things had to be just like she liked them or she would make everyone feel miserable around her. It's alright to have an opinion, but when your opinion drives people away I believe you need to realize you need an attitude adjustment. Sadly, she never did.
Most of your happiness or unhappiness is a result of your perception or by the way you see things. Just think about these simple things and let your answers tell you what kind of person you are.
-Are problems a challenge that energizes you into action or an obstacle that stops you from further progress?
-Does any new or unexpected situation cause you to be fearful or excited about what opportunities they may bring?
-Does a busy day make you thankful that your life is full and useful, or a reason for you to complain there's not enough time in a day to get everything done?
-Does an unexpected intrusion that interrupts your daily agenda be a source of irritation, or is it quite possibly the most important thing you encounter that day?
-Is a mistake the beginning of a new learning venture or an occasion to berate and punish yourself for your own stupidity?
-Do vacations or holidays become times of anxiety and stress for you and your family or times you seek solitude and contentment in the blessings God has brought to you?
It's not always about what is happening to you, but about the way you perceive it. Just like the Word says, "They meant it for evil, but God meant it for good." I do believe that when Oral Roberts said it years ago he meant it. He would always let you know that "Something good is going to happen to you." Perception or seeing things with spiritual eyes opens the passageway out of bondage into liberty. It opens eyes blinded by lies, bitterness, envy, angst, unforgiveness, and failure to the possibility of a fresh start every day of your life. I'm not saying that you will always be positive, but you will be able to see something good take place in your life in in the worst of times if you see through God's eyes. So let me ask you again are you and optimist or a pessimist? Only you and God know the answer to that!
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