Train Your Mind (Part 3)
Luke 11:17 “But
He, knowing their thoughts, said unto them,
Every kingdom divided against itself
is brought to desolation; and a
house divided against a house falleth.”
The stories you tell yourself will change what you see in
life. When you live through an experience with a story about how life is,
that tends to be what you see, even when there’s plenty of evidence to the
contrary
-Some of you have been deeply heartbroken.
-Some of you have lost our parents, siblings or children to
accidents and illnesses.
-Some of you have dealt with infidelity.
-Some of you have been fired from jobs we relied on.
-Some of you have been discriminated against because of our
gender, age, or race.
It’s when you enter a
new experience that arouses significant memories of your own painful story from
the past and narrows your perspective in the present.
When a negative past experience narrows your present
perspective, it’s mostly just a defense mechanism. Every day of your life
you are presented with some level of uncertainty, and your human defense
mechanisms don’t like this one bit. So your mind tries to compensate by
filling in the gaps of information by holding on to the stories we already feel
comfortable with. We end up subconsciously trying to make better sense of
everything in the present by using old stories and past experiences as
filler. This approach may work sometimes, but at other times old stories and past experiences are completely irrelevant to
the present moment and end up hurting us and those we love far more than they
help.
Do your best to consciously detach yourself from the story
you’re telling yourself. Go deeper into reality. Don’t just look at
the surface. Investigate. Observe without presupposing.
Again, it’s about thinking better right now so you can ultimately
live better right now.
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