Welcome to the blog of Pastor Alton Stone, from Simpsonville, SC. Pastor Stone is a retired Ordained Bishop of The Church of God, Cleveland, Tennessee with over 45 years of pastoral ministry.

Friday, January 13, 2017

Languages Of Love

It's important to know the five languages of love, which are: words of affirmation, spending quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service and physical touch. Knowing what a big difference these elements make in your own life, what can you do to help others "take heart" when the going gets tough?

-If an encouraging thought comes to mind, share it! It may not have the same effect if you wait. Don't let shyness hold you back. Instead, form a new habit as Hebrews 3:13 says, "Encourage one another daily, as long as it is called today…"

-Remind fellow Christians of the specific promises of God and characteristics of God. We may know something with our mind, but need to be reminded in our heart. The Apostle Peter wrote in 2 Peter 1:12, "I will always remind you of these things, even though you know them and are firmly established in the truth you now have."

-Write someone a note to tell them that you're praying for them. Tell them what you're praying. You can pray specific Scriptures for individuals such as Romans 15:13, "[I pray that] the God of hope [will] fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit."

-Encourage other believers with a reminder of Christ's coming. It redirects our thinking to an eternal perspective and ultimate deliverance from sin and death.
Paul said in 1 Thessalonians 5:17, 18, "We who are still alive and are left will be caught up in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever. Therefore encourage each other with these words."

-Realize the power of your presence. Just being there is encouraging! When you're with others, you're telling them that they're important. The Apostle Paul closed his letter to the church at Colosse, promising to send his friend Tychius, "that he may encourage your hearts" in Colossians 4:8b.

-If you're part of a church, Bible study or fellowship, be committed to showing up. Your simple presence encourages others that they are part of a community of faith and that they are not alone. That's why the writer of Hebrews 10:25 says, "Let us not give up the habit of meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another and all the more as we see the Day approaching."

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