Family Ties

One of the most common complaints I heard from families as a pastor was they are not as close as they used to be. They may be close in proximity, but still not feel close as a family due to divorce, separation, or loss in a household. They may live next door to one another or even in the same house, but feel more like strangers today than they ever have before.

Families today should value closeness and work hard to keep anyone from feeling left behind or forgotten. Again, closeness is not so much about distance, but about the attitude we have toward each member of our family. We may live far apart from one another, so we need a willingness to do what it takes to keep our relationships close. 

Everyone feels closer when they feel understood, loved, and can look forward to time they can spend together with other family members. No one wants to feel left behind or forgotten.

Treat your family members in a way you would like to be treated. Let them know that they are priority in your life and always will be. Set aside time to remember as a family both the good and hard times. Show appreciation for the good things that they do and have done. Don’t let jealousy over a family member’s success cloud your relationships.

Be available if possible in a time of crisis or need. Try and resolve any conflict with mutual understanding. Don’t let stuff fester. Be glad when a loved one fulfills their dreams. Pray one for another. Even though it’s just a saying, prayer still works. Cherish every moment you can spend with your family. In the long run, you will be glad that you did.

One can stand in the way of that unity. Please don't be that one.