Again, remember God has called us to be encouragers. Here are a few more suggestions I hope will help you accept that calling.
-When you introduce someone, add a few words of praise for the person's abilities, accomplishments, about how they've helped you or about the nature of your relationship. It's encouraging to be praised in front of others. We all hear discouraging news on the television or read it in the newspaper. Positive affirmation can really turn around someone's life if they feel that you really care.
-When someone is discouraged or hurting, offer specific, practical help. If you ask, "How can I help?" the person might be at a loss to answer. It's better to ask, "Would it help if I" or say, "I would like to help if you'll let me." Some people are very private and won't ask for assistance, yet you can't come off as a know-it-all and lift their spirit. Be available, but don't be nosey. You offer to help may encourage them to try again.
-Remind fellow believers of the specific promises of God and characteristics of God. We may know something with our mind, but need to be reminded in our heart. The Apostle Peter wrote:
2 Peter 1:12 "I will always remind you of these things, even though you know them and are firmly established in the truth you now have."
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